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Nov 252 min read

Stop Being 'Too Nice' It's Ruining Your Business

Let’s get one thing straight: being kind and being a pushover are not the same thing.


If your inner "Nice Girl" is running the show, your business might look like:


  • Saying yes to clients who don’t respect your boundaries.

  • Discounting your prices because you feel bad charging your worth.

  • Avoiding tough conversations because you don’t want to ruffle feathers.


Sound familiar? It’s not just frustrating—it’s sabotaging your success.


Here’s the hard truth: People-pleasing is not leadership.

And in business, leadership is the name of the game. You’ve got goals to hit, clients to wow, and a legacy to build. You don’t have time to cater to everyone else’s comfort at the expense of your own power.

But don’t worry—you don’t have to ditch your kindness or morph into some bossy villain to take control. (We’re not here for Mean Girl vibes, Ok?).

You just need a secret weapon: your Alter Ego.


Why Your Alter Ego Is the Answer

Your alter ego is the version of you who doesn’t flinch at setting boundaries. She says “no” without guilt. She commands respect without being rude. She leads with clarity and confidence, leaving people inspired—not resentful.


Your alter ego lets you:

  • Show up in your business with authority and purpose.

  • Navigate tricky conversations without breaking a sweat.

  • Take up space without apologising for it.


How to Step Into Her Power (Without Losing Yourself)

Here’s the deal: Being kind and compassionate are strengths, not weaknesses. But when you pair those qualities with a strong sense of authority, you become unstoppable.

Here’s how to start:

  1. Define Your Alter Ego - What does she look like? How does she speak? What energy does she bring to the table? Write it down. Name her. Make her real.

  2. Borrow Her Confidence - When self-doubt creeps in, ask yourself, What would [alter ego’s name] do? Then do that.

  3. Practice Saying No - It’s not a dirty word. It’s a complete sentence. Start small, and watch how empowering it feels to protect your time and energy.


From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse

Stepping into your alter ego isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about unlocking the leader within you. You can still be kind, approachable, and compassionate, but you’ll also be clear, direct, and unapologetically confident.


Because here’s the truth: When you stop people-pleasing, you start building a business that works for YOU. And when you lead with that kind of energy? Everyone wins.


Ready to meet your Alter Ego and transform how you show up in business?

Join my Alter Ego Online Workshop: Her Persona Power

In just a few transformational steps, you’ll learn how to:

  • Overcome self-doubt and lead with authority.

  • Set boundaries without the guilt.

  • Finally show up like the boss you’re meant to be.


Stop playing small. Step into HER power. Sign up today, and let’s build the unstoppable you.

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